Not An Average Sidekick

hi !! I´m Paulina (or N-Naberrie or Nia Naberrie on the net, Crystal Studio on DA)
Graphic Designer, cosplayer, gamer, reader and fandom girl.

here, you can follow my random toughts about almost everything :D
Who I Follow

This is what was on my tv right now…
Next is the final 100m back…

Thanks universe.. I didn’t needed the reminder tonight..


I must apologize for the rough quality and total lack of consistency and also for myself being rotten to the core.

It was a really fun livestream though! I really enjoyed drawing these! So I’m posting them as a thank you to all the people that come to chat a bit with me. I always have a good time!

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Asker Anónimo Asks:
Okay, hi! I'm the anon from yesterday and I just wanted to thank you for you advices! I told him I like him and he said he feels the same :) thank you so so much!
notanaveragesidekick notanaveragesidekick Said:

Told you !! 

The worst that could happen was him saying “no, lets stay like friends” and he likes you back !! I’m really happy for you anon !!! Best of luck and my best wishes in this new adventure called love :D




  • Alright, I recently did a cosplay as Miles Morales and it was well received to say the least. I got a lot of messages in regards to acting and actually playing the character. I just want to ask the fans of the cosplay and of Ultimate Spider-Man SPECIFICALLY-

    WHO WANTS TO SEE A WEB SERIES (pun intended) WITH ME AS SPIDER-MAN OR AT LEAST A TRAILER? A live action movie is a bit much to ask even though I’d love to do it.image








colleges should offer money back guarantees

no job? no crippling debt!

not satisfied? no problem, thanks for giving us a try—here’s you’re firstborn and your life savings back!

Asker Anónimo Asks:
Same anon again. Thank you for your advices! I'm afraid of how he could react, I mean, maybe he would be embarrassed knowing how I feel about him. He drank a bit yesterday and he started saying that he's the kind of tipsy person that kisses everyone on the cheeks and like at the end he said we should drink together. Also we snapchat basically the entire day and we talk on Skype (just chat) until we fall asleep. Do you think he could feel something for me?
notanaveragesidekick notanaveragesidekick Said:

Well, I can’t tell you if he likes you or not, because I don’t know him or you for that matter. But just think about it like 50/50, the worst that could happen is him saying no. Trust me, speaking up is the best you can do, I spend 10 years in an unhealthy relationship with someone that just messed with me and used me and I thought it was love just because he said so, but it was not until I speak up about my feelings that all took a turn for the best for me. I can’t guaranty that it will work out, but keeping feelings bottled up wont make you happy. And everything just revolves around you being happy, yes also the other person around but here we are talking about you. If you want to take that leap of faith, go on, tell him. Even if it doesn’t work out at least you give it a shot and make the fist move. 

Asker Anónimo Asks:
Same anon as before. Thank you for your kindness :) I'm afraid if he doesn't like me back I'd lose him as a friend and he's really a nice person in general and I like his company. Yesterday he told me that i could stay at his house if I went over there and we talked about drinking and watching horror films together. I really can't understand if he likes me or not and I don't want to ruin our friendship because of my stupid feelings
notanaveragesidekick notanaveragesidekick Said:

well.. he should have some kind of feelings for you if he invites you to stay at his house, not everyone would do that, specially not someone you have never meet in person, so… 

I don’t think it would ruin your friendship with him, I mean, you two have been friends before anything else, so there should not be a problem (and if anyone think that one can’t be friends with an ex, they are wrong, they just don’t want to deal with that). I still stand about you telling him, plan something, if you want to wait until you meet him im person, invite him to dinner or something, make it special and set the mood. If you want to do it over internet, just make sure both of you have no distractions and really talk. Even better if you use Skype. 

Asker Anónimo Asks:
You seem like a really wise person and I don't know who to talk about this to. I realized I like one of my friends, he's always really nice and we talk everyday until we fall asleep. The problems is that he lives in another country and I don't know how he feels about me. I really don't know what to do, I'm starting thinking that I should just let the feeling die. Sorry if I bothered you and thank you for your attention
notanaveragesidekick notanaveragesidekick Said:

Hello Anon, don’t worry and thanks for your trust.  Okay, well.. I’m on the same wagon as you are, so, there’s little advice I can give you. But !! If you want to try, you can tell him, it’s a good sign if you two talk and share as much as you say you two do. 

Obviously, the amount of pressure for a relationship of that magnitude is great, but, as many people say, nothing is impossible. You can tell him how you feel, develop a relationship (in this case, communication and trust are key) you can propose to meet someday in the near future and see if it work out. The relationship could work if both of you want it to work. Worst comes to worst, you will stay as friends. Trust me, if you really like him you wont want the feeling of knowing you could have done something. 

Feel free to ask more or if you want to talk about anything !!


The happy singing is so inappropriate rn


The happy singing is so inappropriate rn

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Hold up, there are people saying Haru overreacted?

How about this entire season being about the future and the unwanted scouting calls and Haru watching everyone else figure out what they want to do.

How about the fact he’s been slowing stewing for nine episodes, mostly silent, ignoring everything that points to him swimming professionally because he doesn’t want to?

Haru reacted like a normal human being.

There’s nothing fucking wrong with how Haru reacted !!

Let me tell you something: when I was half way through my second year of college, I started thinking “wait.. is this really what I want to do the rest of my life ?? is this enough ?? what if this is not my dream ?? what if I have other dreams ?? should I stop this for that new one ?? or what I will do with my life after this ?? can I change this ?? after all this time.. is it okay to just give up and start anew ??” I went out one day, I missed school, I went straight to the beach because no one would look for me there and I could think alone and I could figure out those questions. I realized that I really loved what I was doing in my college, but that yes, I had another dream and that I could pursue it after this one, that everything would work out in the end. But also I asked my father to transfer school so I could be with my family, it didn’t work out in the end but I endured it because in the end I would be fine, no matter what, because I had friend and my family supported me. So, no. theres nothing wrong with how he reacted. 

He doesn’t want to swim for a carrier, for him, swimming was how he could cope with the world and responsibilities and growing up, just like cosplay is for me how I cope with the world; but then, suddenly, there are a bunch of people telling him that he could work making something he did just to enjoy it and to connect with people (because damn it, he is a very passive person that he would not actively seek other people out, because he is confortable with how his world is around him and he doesn’t need more people)  and somehow Rin thought that Haru has the same dream as him (to go to the olympics and be an athlete) but he didn’t and Haru is frustrated because everyone is telling him that he is a prodigy and that he should be putting his talent to good use. But just lest remember, than in the first episode, in the first season, he fucking said “I can’ wait to grow up so people will no longer say I’m a prodigy” (or something on those lines). He doesn’t want any of that. HE DOESN’T EVEN KNOW WHAT HE WANTS !! 

So, please, just fuck off people that say he over reacted !!

failed race and what was after it.

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So… yeah

  • Stephanie Brown: No, Alfred, I do not want cocoa. Honestly, I'm eighteen years old.
  • Alfred Pennyworth: Okay. I just thought I remembered somebody saying last week that her fantasy was to live in a chocolate house.
  • Stephanie Brown: Well, that’s impractical. And fattening.